Guys usually like to keep their problems to themselves, because complaining would make them look like a whiner. Boyfriends therefore usually make many sacrifices just to make their girlfriends happy, which girlfriends usually don’t know.
If you’re attached, maybe you should take a read here, for these could be the hidden sacrifices you, or your boyfriend, have once made.
He buys things for you despite not having enough money to eat
To him, seeing you smile will make him full. Aww, isn’t that sweetness overload (and unhealthy overload)?
He secretly kicks off his bad habits you didn’t like
You might not see the difference, but a kicking a simple bad habit like waking up slightly earlier isn’t easy.
He spends his time doing things for you
The cards you receive, the gifts you receive and the meals you receive didn’t just appear out of nowhere. He has spent time just to prepare them so that you can enjoy them.
He spends less time with his buddies
He might have a group of friends whom he met every week, but when you come into his life, he’s willing to let go of them, because you mean too much to him.
He changes his life goals for you
He might always want to be a musician, but when you told him that it would be a safer career choice to be a teacher, he changed it not because of your logical advice but for you.
He keeps his stress to himself
Because to him, he might be the person to help you de-stress. His own stress is his alone to handle.
He won’t talk or flirt with other girls
It might not be too much of a sacrifice, but compared to his friends who are single, he would have to do this so that you’ll trust him more.
He sacrifices his activities to make time for you
Guys are usually busy, even if it means busy gaming. But for him to give up on these activities to be with you is sacrifice enough.
He does things he doesn’t like
Let’s face it: which guy likes to shop or watch a romance movie? But he’ll do it just so that you’ll be happy.
He compromises a lot just to make you smile
It’s a very general point, but anyone who is in a committed relationship would understand: both sides make a lot of compromises just so that it’ll be a happy and long-lasting relationship.
Now, if you’ve had such a boyfriend, it’s time to appreciate him instead of complaining.