5 signs that you’re in a dead-end relationship

Last Updated on 2016-05-19 , 1:43 pm

“Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control.”

When you meet someone and fall in love with him/her, you thought he/she is your Mr Right/Mrs Right and everything seems perfect. However, some issues came along the way.

Always remember this, no relationship is perfect. Along the way, you may face a few obstacles that will hinder you in the relationship. Sometimes you are able to overcome these obstacles but there might still be a small percentage that won’t not have a happy ending.

These are the obvious signs that a person in a relationship should look out for to know when it’s time to break up.

1. He tells you he isn’t ready for a relationship.

If he tells you he isn’t ready for a relationship, he is hinting you that he wants to break up with you and is conveying that message in an indirect manner. If he ever says that he isn’t ready for a relationship, don’t question him or drop a tear, but just do yourself a favour by walking away. I know this is hard for you, but by staying, it won’t make any difference. You need time to cool down. Give yourself time to calm down and accept the fact that you are no longer attached with him.

2. He’s has fallen in love with someone else.

If you’re in a relationship with a guy who has fallen for another girl, you should probably let go of the relationship. This is the toughest part a girl can ever do but by holding onto this dead-end relationship, it will only drain you physically and mentally. Don’t ever do things to hurt yourself. You should learn to love yourself first before you love others. Just tell yourself that he isn’t the one for you and one day you will definitely meet a guy who is worth your love.

3. He only yearns for sex with you.

If you’re in a relationship with a guy who desires for sex more than spending time with you, he is definitely not the right one for you and you should immediately break up with him. Sex should NEVER be a criterion to maintain the relationship.

If you feel that you’re in a dead-end relationship, and the only thing you think of that will salvage a relationship is to have sexual intercourse with your partner, you should think twice about it. It is wrong to have that kind of mindset: that by having sexual intercourse with him, he will change his attitude towards the relationship. If you ever reject him when he wants to have sexual intercourse with you and he is enraged, just let him be. Never allow yourself to have sexual intercourse with a guy that says, “If you really love me, you will have sex with me.” I will believe that there is no connection between sex and love. If a guy ever says that to you, he is just a jerk.

4. His actions do not match his words.

If a guy wants you to be together with him, he pleases you with his sweet nothings and how he would like to commit to you, but as time passes by he does not actually take action to make it happen. People always said that when a guy successfully courted you, the romantic things that he had done in the past would not be done again when you two are together for months or years.

If you look back on all your time when you’re together with him, and you see nothing but a trail of empty or broken promises in the wake of all his sweet nothings, then you will realize that the relationship is coming to an end. It won’t go any further.

If he is only lukewarm about committing to you, then it’s time to leave the relationship.

5. You hope he will just change a little bit.

If you love a guy, but you just hope he will change a little bit, then you should give up on that relationship. You should not and never expect that you can change a guy or that he will change for you.

Do people change? Yes, absolutely! But should you expect them to change for you or for a relationship? No, you should not. Real change comes from a core desire to change for yourself. It does not come from you meddling and hoping that he will change. You have to either accept him as the guy that he is now, or give up.

The faster you’re willing to give up from unfulfilling relationships, the more space you will have in your life for the kind of relationship you really want. So, if you want a fulfilling relationship to happen, you should STOP wasting your time waiting for him to change and move on.