6 Changes A Guy Will Have When He Has Become Your Boyfriend

Last Updated on 2016-06-01 , 12:25 am

They say that men become very different once they get married but not many people talk about the changes they go through once they become your boyfriend. Some things are sweet while others aren’t really so but whatever happens, they are still the guy you fell in love with.

He shows you his vulnerable side
After the two of you got together, you realised that he bares his heart and soul to you a lot more often. His fears, his future plans, and sometimes even his deepest thoughts and emotions. There is nothing wrong with it except that it is very sweet.

He starts to care lesser about how he looks
Well, he’s already got the girl. He doesn’t have to care about how he looks around you anymore. This shows that he is comfortable around you.

He gains weight
If you have realised, couples in healthy and happy relationships tend to both gain weight. It is not a bad thing if it means that he is happy being with you.

He becomes less sweet
This is a given. Boyfriends tend to become less sweet after being in a relationship for a few years. Forget about him travelling down to your place just to deliver you food in the middle of the night; the honeymoon period is over and you are probably less sweet to him compared to before anyway.

He stops planning dates
“What do you want to do today?” “Don’t know leh.” This is the standard response a boyfriend who has slowly stopped planning out your dates would give. To be honest, it doesn’t matter if he stops planning dates because when you are in such a comfortable relationship with someone, even staying home the whole weekend is good enough.

He gives you lesser surprises
Flowers on Valentine’s Day? A box of chocolates for you birthday? Don’t even think about him doing those things for you anymore unless being sweet and spontaneous is in his blood.