Not everybody are born with an attractive physical appearance. Beauty is not only about how you look, but also about how you are as an individual. There are so much more in being sexually or interpersonally appealing and being physically attractive is just one of them.
“Attraction isn’t only about looks. It’s about a certain primal magnetism. Of course, we can be physically attracted to someone, but we are more often drawn to their confidence, passion and personality. Being attractive is about more than just appearance. In fact Attractiveness is the basis of all human relationships. “
There are a lot of things that men find appealing in women.
The writer of the Single Woman Guide stated “Men are very visual and simple creatures, for us, attraction and infatuation happens very quickly, we don’t need to know a lot about you in order to become attracted. Basically, it’s all down to your first impression. It’s also true that in time, this changes and our appreciation for you will be at a much deeper level.”
Based on psychology today, there are four key elements about attractiveness.
A Dynamic attractiveness is all about body language. As George Harrison suggested, there’s “something in the way she [or he] moves…” the way people express themselves—their dynamic appearance— is what makes them sexy and attractive.
John Medina, the New York Times best-selling author and developmental molecular biologist discovered that the brain has a very short attention span. Our brains are attracted to intriguing, interesting, and engaging people and things.
People judge you the moment you walk in the room.
Science says that attraction happens in the first 30 seconds. And, as much as we don’t like to admit it, our brain decides if we are attracted to someone else almost instantly. Rutgers University anthropologist Helen Fisher studied hundreds of couples in love and found that the human body knows within one second whether someone’s physically attractive or not. We might not realize it, but our brains make incredibly accurate and long-lasting snap judgments in the first few seconds of meeting a new person.
So what exactly makes men attracted to you?
Be cheerful“Nothing turns a man off more than a depressed and mean attitude. If you want to get that extra attention make sure you look cheerful because a flirty giggle and a cheerful attitude can quickly melt any man’s heart.”
Think of it like this; will you date a guy who looks miserable and unhappy? Same thing happens here. Everybody wants to be with someone who is happy with their life.
Situation matters. We like and are attracted to people who like us. We tend to reciprocate affection. Enjoying rewarding and pleasing experiences together make a partner appear more attractive to us.”
Acknowledges a man’s staresSome guys may have a lot of guts and approach you instantly but most guys don’t have this type of attitude and what you need to do is to give them at least the slightest reason to react.
“This is the first step in seduction and probably the most important. You need to have the ability to acknowledge our stares. Many guys will try to get your attention by giving a manly stare. React to this by looking back at them. You don’t even have to smile (sure if you do, you give them even more reasons to approach you) but even just acknowledging their look is enough. You don’t need to do this with every guy that looks at you, but if he seems decent enough, do it.”
Static Attractiveness“The shape of your face, your physical features, and your general body shapes. Of course, physical appearance can be altered through aging, injury, or plastic surgery, but it is generally the component of physical attractiveness that you can’t do much about.”
Men are attracted by looks, everybody knew it!How you present yourself is what affected men’s judgment about your looks. Dressing well and looking good are things that you can immediately change. Self presentation is not just about looking good, but you have to feel good as well. When you are feeling good about yourself people around you will feel the same way and your confidence are as important as everything else! Have well fitted clothes and use a little bit of perfume and you’ll be men magnet in no time.
Enjoyed this article because it’s both informative and entertaining? If so, you should download the Goody Feed app so that you won’t miss out on any articles, as there are app-exclusive contents as well! Also, join our Telegram channel if you use Telegram often!Latest & Popular Articles You Must Not Miss:
Our Most Popular Videos You Must Not Miss: