Last Updated on 2017-05-21 , 1:31 pm
Like they always say, behind a successful man is a capable wife. However, at the same time, many men have been destroyed by marriage and others have even decide to go MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) and stay single for life. So what is the influencing factor here?
We believe that the kind of wife that a man has will influence him to become either a wealthy man or a poor man. Maybe. Of course lah, we don’t mean you’re poor means it’s your wife’s fault. It could just as easily be your own damned fault. Just sayin’. Ladies, if you want your hubby to be successful, this is what you have to take note of.
A dominating wife will make a man discouraged and unmotivated, while a loving wife can motivate a man to strive for success.
Change vs influence
Women who always try to change their husband is likely to make him feel irritated and distracted. Making him listen and cater to your every whim and wants will tire him out. However, a woman who subtly influences her husband is likely to experience more success.
Spending time with him
A husband would want to spend time with his wife after a long day at work. After all, she is his biggest motivation to strive at his workplace.
Men and women want different things from their spouses. According to marriage experts, the number one need for guys is their wives’ respect. That means a man wants to be held in high esteem and be shown consideration and appreciation—even when he makes mistakes. He wants to be seen as a hero, especially in the eyes of his bride. When a wife disrespects her husband by being unappreciative, corrective, demeaning, ridiculing, ignoring, or discounting, it will hurt him.
A man needs his wife to give him her full support and trust for him to feel motivated to work hard for the family. Even if he fails, he needs his wife to trust him to get back on track. If you don’t, you’ll only make him even more insecure and feel more like a failure, which is not helpful at all for his success in his career.
Treating him like a man
If you ask women to describe their ideal man, many will describe a man who loves to converse and open up. They want someone who enjoys the little details of life, someone who remembers all the things that are important to them, and someone who would rather share with them about the day than stare at the TV all night. That is what girl friends are for. Men don’t really like to talk and open up and fret over the minutest of things. Forcing him to will only make him miserable as he is probably more interested in the football match showing on the tv.
Generally, men are happier than women with their marriage. Statistics show that women are overwhelmingly the ones that file for divorce or look for marriage counselling. Men are generally easily contented with their marriages and don’t want to do anything to change it, for it makes marriage a chore. Women, on the other hand, tend to have higher expectations and are usually the ones who feel disappointed. Unrealistic expectations can make the marriage tense and generally result to not fulfilling any of the factors that’ll lead the man to success listed above.
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