Guys: 5 things you need to know before confessing your love

Guys, let’s just dive right into the points, okay?

1. Choose a less crowded place
Let’s face it: it takes a considerable courage to make such a confession. If it fails, at least you won’t need to face countless happy couples. If you couldn’t muster enough courage, then text her instead, though we’ve always believed that it’s always better to do it face-to-face.

2. It’s all fated
No matter how handsome you look, or how rich you are, or how romantic you’ve made your confession to be, the result is still going to be the same: if she loves you, she’ll accept you. If she doesn’t, she won’t. Nothing would change the results, so just accept it.


3. Don’t rush her for an answer
Is the answer more important than your future? When you confess your love, isn’t it just, well, a confession? And to check whether she has the same feelings as well? Sometimes, if it’s too sudden, she just needs to think through it.  Don’t try to convince her by confusing her: it’ll lead to nowhere. Instead, let her think through it. The answer is somewhere in her mind, and once she’s found it, you’ll either be smiling or frowning. There’s no need to force it out.

4. Confessing your love is a serious matter
Don’t do it for the sake of doing, or do it just to “test” her. Once you’ve said that sentence, there’s no turning back. Accept it and make sure you’re ready to face the consequences, if not, you’ll suffer more.

5. You’re not afraid of the rejection: you’re afraid of the awkward moment after the rejection
Rejection is painful, but the truth is that most guys are afraid of the moment between rejection and reaching home: That is one of the most awkward moments in your life: what are you going to say? How should you react to questions?
But don’t you realize something: in order to minimize that, simply confess your love before going home. This so, there’s no awkward moment, and since you’re technically afraid of this awkward moment, there should be no fear now, right?