Last Updated on 2017-05-27 , 3:50 pm

It is said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. That is quite true when they start to quarrel. It seems that both men and women do not understand one another at all and even a quarrel may not resolve the issue. Do you feel that same way? Maybe the below 6 points can help you to understand.

The way you and your bae communicate is different

A Man and woman think, process information and communicate in totally different ways. Quarrels happen when the couple cannot understand each other and perceive the meaning of words used in a different way. Learn to control your temper and attempt to think from their point of view, and you’ll find your quarrels getting lesser.

Your bae value logic while you value feelings

Men are simple-minded creatures when it comes to processing feelings and emotions. Their logical minds cannot see the reason why a woman is upset and your bae is mostly bewildered when you jump on him and start ranting.

Women are complicate beings who process feelings like a rocket. Being sensitive and full of imagination, they are quick to react to actions made by men. Coupled with a suspicious nature and mood swings, men are usually left scratching their heads, wondering what went wrong this time.

You are likely to be sensitive to how you are treated

When a woman claims that she is angry with the man’s attitude towards her and not the situation at hand, she is actually implying that she needs more love, care and concern from her man. She is upset that he appears unwilling to do more. However, in the man’s point of view, he is already doing the best he can, but the woman is not satisfied. He may find her critical and demanding and worsen the situation.

Your bae’s ego

Both men and women have ego to protect, but a man’s ego grows exponentially when a woman starts to quarrel with him. It takes a turn for the worse when the woman starts to dig up old scores to settle with him.

A man’s immediate reaction is negative in this case, thinking that the woman is unreasonable and critical of him. If the quarrel occurs in public, the man will feel embarrassed as he is “losing face” in public. A quarrel like this can escalate to a point when the relationship will be threatened.

You think that your bae is irresponsible to a fault

Sometimes, when men want to do something more dangerous or risky, women will try to dissuade them from doing it. The way of thought of the women is that men are irresponsible to want to do such things as it endangers him and her and possibly the family.

However, when women do not express their thoughts clearly across to the men, they will think that women doubts their capabilities and do not believe in them. If a quarrel happen, the women will think that the men do not acknowledge her concerns and fears.

Both parties refused to admit their mistakes

It is better to save your relationship than to win in some argument. When both parties refuse to respect each other’s views and difference, they are both not likely to back down from an argument.

It will be made worse if both parties are hard-headed and refuse any form of mediation from third party who can see the issue more clearly. Quarrels usually make or break a relationship, and it is not worth it when you destroy a relationship to keep your ego or your pride.

Having an occasional quarrel is a good way to express your feelings to each other, but having constant quarrels wear down both parties and the relationship. The next time you quarrel with your bae, view the quarrel from the other’s perspective and you may find that there is nothing to argue about.

Remember that while men want approval and respect from women, women want to feel loved, respected and cherished by their men.

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