Girls, we understand that you have expectations from your relationship.
You wish your boyfriend can sweet talk you when youโre down, whisper sweet nothings into your ear when youโre cuddling on the couch and be romantic.
Iโm pretty sure you know by now not every guy is like that.
Sometimes, what we think is sweet in our mind comes out sounding, well, unsweet. For example, youโre my sweet little poo-poo. โNuff said.
But itโs okay because here are 6 funny but true reasons why a guy who canโt sweet talk to save his life is possibly the best boyfriend ever.
1. He canโt sweet talk other girls
Letโs face it, sweet talking gets you girls. If he can charm you, he sure as hell can charm other women too. In Mandarin, we call sweet talkers ๅฃ่ฑ่ฑ, and you know what they call players? ่ฑ่ฑๅ ฌๅญ.
So as far as youโre concerned, you should be happy no one will be interested in your โterritoryโ.
Unless heโs incredibly attractive, then it canโt be helped.
2. He makes up for it by being sweet in his actions
Guys want their girlfriends to be impressed with them, no matter whether we say it out or not. Nothing makes us feel better about ourselves than managing to make you smile.
And to be honest, even if he canโt tell you something sweet that goes along the line of I miss you, heโll send you home because he misses you. Actions speak louder than words after all.
3. You donโt have to sweet talk him too
I mean, an eye for an eye, right? If he doesnโt sweet talk you, thereโs no reason why heโll expect you to do it too, right?
Of course, if heโs sweet in his actions, youโll have to be too. A relationship which takes lesser effort to maintain lasts longer after all.
4. You Always Get the Truth
If youโre fat, heโll tell you that youโre fat.
No more beating around the bush, offering an apple and all that.
If you want a partner to be 100% honest with you, chances are youโll find it in a guy who canโt sweet talk his way out of trouble. Oh, but the delivery might hurt. #JustSaying
5. He Has Other Awesome Qualities
Sweet talking is one of the easiest ways to catch a girlโs heart. Take that away and youโll have a much harder time trying to get hitched.
So if your boyfriend, who isnโt able to steal your heart away with his conversational skills, still managed to snag you, the quality that attracted you to him mustโve been pretty awesome.
6. Heโll Try His Best to Make You Happy
Because he has a hard time sweet talking girls, he knows you love him for his other qualities. This makes him treasure you even more. And of course, since he has a hard time sweet-talking his way out of trouble, heโll try not to get into hot soup in the first place.
So itโs all good.
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