8 subtle yet effective ways to make your boyfriend sayang you more

Last Updated on 2016-05-19 , 1:42 pm

Girls, how do you make your boyfriend dote on you more? He may love you a lot but he doesn’t show or express it to you. It’s cute and sweet, and romantic at times; but sometimes, what we girls want is to be doted on explicitly, and not have to decipher and infer his affection through his words and actions, right?Here are 8 subtle yet effective ways to make your boyfriend sayang you more. Try them out for yourself and see if they work for you as well!

Portray a thrifty and able-to-take-hardship side
No, guys don’t like the spoilt princess routine which portrays a girl who cannot deal with a single hardship. Show this side of you to him by starting with simple changes, such as taking the trains to work or school instead of the cab you’ve always been taking. Opt for the chicken rice at Kopitiam for lunch rather than the café you’ve always dined in. Not only will he appreciate you more, he will want to bring you out to eat at your favourite restaurants from time to time because he can’t bear seeing you undergo so much “hardship”.

Never stop learning
For a change, you can pick up a new habit–reading. Read all types of books, not just fantasy stories about Vampires’ romance. You don’t want to sound dumb when words come out of your mouth. As a bonus, this will help you keep up with the world after graduation. And guys appreciate intelligent women too!

Be hardworking
Work towards your goals, be it school or work. Show that you’re capable of determination and hard work, and your guy will be there right at your side, supporting you in your time of need.

Take care of your body
Having proper rest, eating nutritious food and doing adequate exercise will help you live better, feel better and look better. There’s no harm in living healthily, especially when you get older and realize you can’t keep up with the junk food and huge amount of meat. And you know what they say, right? It’s the beautiful women who get better treatment wherever they go.

Stay apart
Absence make the heart fonder, and you’ll appreciate each other more when you’re together. Clinging to each other every single day won’t work for a healthy long-term relationship.

Spend half your life on the Internet
Don’t distance yourself from the real world trying to fit in the virtual world. The Internet won’t run away but your boyfriend might. Connect to him sincerely and in person, don’t always keep yourself busy on the Internet or on your smartphone.

Be stronger and independent
Overcome challenges be it small or big. Tell your boyfriend how you’re going to solve something or improve a situation. He’ll even motivate you and pamper you while you’re tackling the challenge. After all, men like women who are strong and know what they want in life.

Act cute
This is something guys think girls do naturally, but that’s not true. If you don’t know how to act cute, learn to do so now. Your boyfriend will be wrapped around your little pinkie. But don’t be excessive or you’ll earn his disgust instead.

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