One M’sia Girl Has Stood Up for All Gamer Boyfriends. Thank You, Jolin

Last Updated on 2020-02-29 , 10:01 pm

Assuming that you’re a gamer and you have a girlfriend, it’s not such a stretch to assume that your girlfriend can sometimes feel a little jealousy over the attention you might be lavishing on your game instead of her.

Unless, of course, she’s a gamer herself.

But what do I know, I’m just a gamer (without a—I think no need say lah hor).

I’m sure you’re familiar with the whole argument about “who’s more important, game or me”. Well who’s the irrational one here? We’re not the one’s personifying a game!

But seriously though, we’d recommend the girl to give you some space to game; it’ll make both of you feel better, and there are even opportunities to bond. Don’t believe me? Take a look at the Facebook post here.

This Malaysian girl had the exact same problem of a gamer boyfriend (in that he was obsessed with a mobile game somewhat like Mobile Legends, if you’re aware of it).

They had fights about it too, since he couldn’t devote his time to her if he was gaming. Then one day, she decided she had enough, and left him alone to his game.

That turned out to be the better idea, as it wasn’t even 30 mins before he came looking for her to share his joy of victory.

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(bet you expected some sappy story about how he suddenly realised he’s losing the more precious thing to him—her. Haha, no)

As time went by, she began to watch him play, then cheer for him, help him, and eventually play with him. Instead of letting a game ruin the relationship, she let it strengthen their bond.

The girl, Jolin, then suggested girlfriends everywhere to try his hobbies (games) as well, since it was quite normal for the guy to follow the girl on things he might not enjoy as much (sappy romance films, shopping trips etc.).

She also said that it was quite simple to avoid confrontations, if the girl doesn’t enjoy gaming at all. Just accompany him, without being unnecessarily vexatious. Besides, it’s a game. It’s not going to “steal” the boyfriend away anyway.

To that I say “Bravo!”, Jolin. Well said. Thanks for standing up for gamer boyfriends everywhere!

Featured Image: Facebook (Jolin Ong)