If you can only take in one relationship advice, itโs this:
No sending nudes or private videos to your partner.
And Iโm not just talking to ladies; Guys are included too.
One pretty famous dude decide to do it a couple of years ago and things didnโt turn out well for him.
Taiwanese Actor River Huang
If you find him familiar, thatโs because you watched Aloysius Pangโs last drama, Beijing to Moscow.
Heโs the guy that lost his memory in the show.
But now, heโs not just an actor that worked with Aloysius Pang before his unfortunate passing.
Heโs also known for his masturbation video.
Masturbation Video Reportedly Leaked By Unhappy Ex-Girlfriend
The video was recorded by Huang himself seven to eight years ago, reportedly at a temple.
At that time, he was a student and sent a video of himself masturbating to his then-girlfriend to โshow his loveโ.
He had dated the girl for about four years from high school to college.
Huang said they broke up on amicable terms and it wasnโt clear how the video was leaked out.
Cue Speculations
Of course, with such an epic video online, you can be sure that speculations will start flying.
Taiwanโs Mirror Media said that the video couldโve been released by an unhappy ex-girlfriend.
There was a rumour that Huang dated 80 girls within two years, and some of them were unhappy because he cheated on them.
Huangโs manager told the media that the 80-girl rumour isnโt true.
Currently, Huang is in a relationship with actress Jenny Wen and theyโve been together for five years.
Moral of the Story
Again, I emphasise.
No private videos or nudes to be sent to your partner because chances of these getting out are pretty high.
Even if the person you were dating isnโt a douche, they couldโve lost their phones or gotten hacked and your videos would still have been leaked.
So if they want something for โremembranceโ, tell them to treat you well and youโll give them the real thing every. Single. Day.
Remember, sexting is sexy until itโs no longer between the two of you. Then it just becomes messy.
You wouldnโt want your photos to end up on Telegram groups like SG Nasi Lemak, would you?