Last Updated on 2016-05-20 , 11:39 am
If you’re in a relationship right now, here are some hidden problems that might threaten your relationship!
Different end in mind
When you get into a relationship, more often than not, your partner may have different end goals in mind. It may be marriage, it may be having children, or it could be that they’re just “playing”. Note what they have in mind – it is best that both people have the same end in mind.
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Conflicting personalities
You may think that a couple squabbling about may be cute and all, but sometimes, it boils down to different personalities. You may be adventure-seeking, but your partner might just want to chill at home. This difference in personalities and lifestyles will affect your relationship.
Money
Do you split the bill? Or do you assume that your money is his/her money too? Money issues are hard to bring up, but someone has to start laying ground rules.
Differing views on Pre-Marital Sex
Pre-marital sex might be the deal breaker for some in relationships. Belief in abstinence until marriage is something that people hold dear to, but some don’t see it so. Therefore, it is extremely important to clarify this with your partner to avoid conflicts, when you two are steady.
Keeping secrets
We all have secrets. But when secrets get too numerous, or that your partner just isn’t the one you’ll turn to, you know there may be something wrong with your relationship. Trash it out.
Not expressing views enough
You may want to do something, but your partner insists on something else. You relent, and let him/her do what she wants. This give-and-take is common in relationships, but if you’re the one giving too much, or taking too much, the relationship is highly unbalanced.
Your In-Laws
In-laws are the trickiest things. You yearn for them to like you, but when they do not, in-laws will sometime influence your partner’s decision. It really depends on how much your partners obey them.
Your partner’s friends
If you really, really, dislike all your partner’s friends, you might want to rethink your relationship. Why is he or she hanging out with people you dislike? It may be that he/she is really like his/her friends, and you don’t truly know how your partner is like.
Jealousy
If you get jealous easily, it’s normal. But just don’t let jealousy affect your relationship. You can tell your partner about your feelings, but never control him/her.
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Getting out of Honeymoon phase
The ‘Honeymoon phase’ is when couples start dating and are new to each other. Once it is over, you’ll know every single detail of your couple, and sometimes it gets too boring. You know it’s time to spice up your life.
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