8 simple ways to know your boyfriend is serious about the relationship even if he never said so

Last Updated on 2016-05-20 , 11:26 am

Things seem to be looking pretty serious between you and your boyfriend but he still hasn’t said those three little magical words that you have been yearning to hear. How do you know whether he really loves you if he doesn’t want to utter those three simple words? Fortunately, we have came up with this list for you below.

Being intimate
A guy who loves you wants to be as close to you as possible, thus he will be constantly touching you gently. He just can’t seem to keep his hands away from playing with your hair, holding your hand or even draping an arm around your shoulders.

Meeting the family and friends
Because he is in this for the long term, he will want to include you in every aspect of his life. He would want to show you off to his nearest and dearest as soon as he is sure of the relationship.

Treasuring his time with you
He will make you a priority on his list, and make arrangements to see you whenever possible. He would rather sacrifice some of his sleeping time and rush to complete his tasks in order to spend his time with you later in the day.

Texting you randomly
He will send you random texts during the day just to show that he is thinking of you. If your man is not much a texter, he may call you at intervals just to check in. He generally just misses you and wants to share his thoughts.

Good listener
Women love to talk more than men and there’s nothing a woman loves more than a man who is genuinely interested in what she has to say. Communication is vital in any relationship and if your boyfriend is serious about the relationship he will want to listen and understand you better.

Eye contact
Another sign that he is serious about your relationship is he constantly makes eye contact with you even when both of you are out and about. You may be separated but you find that his eyes constantly seek you out as he is always thinking about you and want to make sure that you are fine.

Thoughtful gifts
These doesn’t mean expensive, luxury gifts like branded items, jewelry or the like. Instead, he will buy you something that you mentioned you needed or have an interest in. For example, you may have told him that you needed a new water bottle and he would show up the next day with a brand new bottle just because he remembers everything you say.

Your opinion matters
Your boyfriend will seek and value your opinions and suggestions in all matters, big or small. This doesn’t mean that he cannot make his own decisions, being the person closest to him and his natural confidante, you are his sounding board. He respects your views and you as a person.

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