Husband Forced Wife to go for In Vitro Fertilisation Coz He Wants a Son

Whenever a couple goes through a divorce, we always hear people telling them to not hurt the child cos they’re innocent.

In another extremely complicated series of marriage and divorces, yet another child has her childhood ruined by a pair of irresponsible parents.

What happened

The wife was a wedded female housing agent. She fell in love with her now ex-husband, who was a married man back then as well.

Both eventually got married, but it only lasted for four years.

Kinda unsurprising for a pair who marries and separates so easily.

The wife claims that her then-husband favours boys more than girls, and had a 180-degrees change in his attitude towards her after finding out that she was pregnant with a girl.

He is just your typical traditional parent who thinks that boys are more useful than girls.

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Note: Author is a female. And she disagrees.

Not only that

She claimed that he was not pleased that she gave birth to a girl.

He also forced her to undergo in vitro fertilisation not once, not twice, but three times just cos he wants a boy.

When the baby was eleven-weeks old, she unfortunately suffered a miscarriage.

The husband then abused her physically.

Afterwards, he suggested surrogate pregnancy twice and abused her again when she objected.

Seriously?
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The wife also claimed that he is a control freak. She has no freedom and can’t go out to work.

He wants her to stay at home and serve him.

Note: Author is triggered. Dude, we’re in the 21st Century Singapore.

When he’s angry, he’ll chase her out of the house by claiming that the house is under his name. (Hmm, I see that you did some calculation back then)

The other side of the story

The husband directed the arrow back at her and claimed that she is suffering from delusional disorder and auditory hallucination.
My psychology teacher once told me that when a man tries to overpower a woman, the first thing that he’ll say is that she does not know what she is saying.
Cos women are “sentimental”.
He continues by saying that she allegedly hurt him deliberately and abused her daughter.
He added that she’ll use her daughter as a bait for his money and blamed her for letting her daughter witness her cheating on him.

 

How it all started

The two began developing feelings towards each other in 2008.

Mind you, both were wedded during this period.

Husband was an assistant engineer and has three daughters, who were 20,15 and 10 years old respectively.

Wife has a son who was 14 years old then.

Four pictures of a perfect family ruined.

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After dating for 2 years, the couple gave birth to a daughter and tied the knot in August 2012.

The marriage ended in April 2016, and the pair decided to raise custody matters over their 5-year-old daughter to court.

The now 54-year-old male is working as a consultant in a lift engineering company. The woman, who is now 44 years old, works as an administration staff and part-time PHV driver.

What the judge says

The judge, however, finds his words unreliable and thinks that he should be held responsible for causing her daughter to have misconceptions and develop fear towards her own mother.

The judge also noted that the wife has fully recovered from her illnesses and is well capable of taking care of her daughter.

Custody was given to the both of them, but the girl will be staying with her mother. The man has to pay 75% of child support.

He has filed for an appeal.

What do you think of the judge’s decision?

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