Whoever you are, or whatever you are, mark this name down: Monica Baey.
For years later, she might be the reason why you’re able to shower in public toilet without having to check if an iPhone XV or Huawei P50 is filming you.
Lest you’ve no idea what I’m blabbering about, here’s a brief context of what happened:
Last year, Monica Baey was showering in an NUS hostel bathroom when she spotted a phone filming her. Soon, the perpetrator admitted to the act, and it turned out that he’s her friend.
After telling NUS and making a police report, NUS got the perpetrator, Nicolas Lim, to write an apology letter to Monica. In addition, he was banned from hostels and also suspended for a semester.
The police gave him a 12-month conditional warning.
Now, obviously these punishments didn’t sit well with Monica (or any sane person), and seeing that she’s got no other avenues to voice her discontent, she went for the last resort: social media.
After posting a series of Instagram Stories about a week ago (yes, can you believe it has only been a week?), her traumatic experience went viral. It turned out that this punishment is the norm; there were apparently more serious offences in the past with the same punishments.
NUS apologised and decided to create a committee to review their discipline and support framework, and also held a town hall session to hear students’ concern.
Well, the town hall was conducted on Thursday (25 April 2019), and let’s just say that if NUS was hoping that the town hall would be able to pacify students, they were wrong.
Students Not Happy
Over 400 students and staff turned up for the town hall, which included Monica, who’s on an exchange programme in Taiwan and had flown back for this town hall.
The town hall was chaired by Prof Ling, vice-provost of student life, and the panel comprised her, the dean of students Peter Pang and NUS counsellor Celestine Ling.
For a start, Prof Ling apologised to Monica and “anyone who has felt unsafe on campus.”
A good start?
Yeah.
In addition, the university openly admitted their mistakes, with the dean of students saying that their “victim care is totally inadequate.”
Sounds good?
Of course.
Security measures would be beefed up and as mentioned, a committee would be set up to review the “relevant framework.” In addition, the school would create a centralised unit for victim care, so that victims like Monica won’t have to resort to social media go through the same experience again.
Well, all good, except for the fact that these details could have easily been made known via a press release.
Not Enough Time
The bane of the session?
The 90-minute session was too short and did not allow all attendees to ask burning questions. But what hit the nerves of the attendees were the response by the dean of students at the end of the session.
When an attendee asked for the session to be extended, the dean of students allegedly turned down the request…because there was another meeting to be attended.
He then asked students to email their concerns instead.
Let’s see…if your girlfriend has cancelled all her appointments just to have a nice dinner with you, and you went off after fifteen minutes because you’ve got another person to meet, you can bet that your girlfriend would hulkified.
But that’s not all.
Committee On Sexual Misconduct Not in Panel
So, the town hall is about sexual misconduct – however, no one from the committee is present. While it’s argued that the committee has not been fully formed and therefore wouldn’t be plausible for them to be in the panel, the students were still not pleased.
But still, our history maker Monica Baey said it best; in an interview with TODAYonline, she mentioned, “I think that although there is a lot of room for improvement on how town halls are conducted, it’s a start.”
More Town Halls in the Near Future
Like what Monica said, this is merely the start: the university said yesterday (26 April 2019) that they would be conducting more town hall sessions in the coming weeks.
Well, let’s just hope that they’ll make it longer…or if anyone in the panel needs to leave on time, then find a better or more sensitive excuse reason.
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